So yesterday was Wednesday, designated bath/shower night in our house. When Paige was born Bob & I couldn't keep track of when the kids got baths, so we started doing them Sundays & Wednesdays. If they got them on a Saturday, whatever, but we knew that if we couldn't remember the last time they got… Continue reading Dinner/Bedtime/kid showers- wait, that’s not right…
What to say instead of “it’s meant to be”
No one ever knows what to say when a tragedy occurs. Everything you try to say sounds hollow and inadequate. But one of the worst in my mind is "some things happen for a reason." And I know there are some things that actually DO happen this way. I wanted to start having kids by… Continue reading What to say instead of “it’s meant to be”
Grief is not a pissing contest
Everyone manages grief differently. Sometimes it hits you randomly, and sometimes you know something will affect you so you try to prepare. But really, you just have to keep moving. You have two choices when a crisis happens. You can move or you can stand still. The classic fight or flight. When Bob was diagnosed… Continue reading Grief is not a pissing contest
The Journey Begins
Thanks for joining me! Good company in a journey makes the way seem shorter. — Izaak Walton