Solo Parent Life

The weight of the burden

It had the greatest of hopes, my 4th of July plans. Surprise the kids with a movie (The Little Mermaid! So good!). Get the kids fast food for dinner since the place I wanted to go to was closed. Small dinner, after sharing 2 giant popcorns. Then I thought “hey, let’s go to the playground… Continue reading The weight of the burden

Solo Parent Life

A week of Saturdays

Today is Saturday. The real Saturday, not a Wednesday-Saturday or a Friday-Saturday. It’s actually Saturday. Which means it’s mommy’s sleep in day! First day of break was last Friday, and we were already in Bainbridge with Bob’s parents. We went out a day early because the weather forecasts became even more foreboding by the afternoon… Continue reading A week of Saturdays

Interpreting Grief, Solo Parent Life

Home isn’t a house

Ask a military kid where they're "from" and they'll tell you where they were born. Even now, in my thirties I can't really say I'm "from" Buffalo, although I think of it that way. I'll say I graduated high school in Buffalo, which is as close as I'll get. My parents moved away from Buffalo… Continue reading Home isn’t a house

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Blessed

Hey there guys, gals, and everything in between. It’s been a while! With everything going on I’ve once again forgotten about my own needs, and without prompting took the last two days “off” between the hours of 8:30 and 4 when the kids were in school. Is it a personal day when I don’t have… Continue reading Blessed

Solo Parent Life

Weighted blankets and pool time

Part 1: “So help me God we are outside and you are in a pool so stop wigging out about every bug you see!” That’s what I wanted to yell earlier. I was outside with the kids, sitting in a well worn and partially broken camp chair, supervising play in the new pool, much bigger… Continue reading Weighted blankets and pool time